She drives me crazy!@!

Ya girl you do!@! In such a good way. Nothing like seeing you with that key on your wrist. I just about popped when your sister asked what the key was for. "Oh something I locked away and would hate to lose the key, I might want to open the lock one day". I was going crazy, she had no clue but boy did I.

The little things get me and rock my world.........

Fantasy and reality.

My wife and I talk about what she will do for me.

My fantasy:

Coming home locked away as usual to find her sitting on the couch dressed all in black leather, the only thing shinny on here is the chain on her wrist with the key attached. There is a list of things to do on the door as I come in. I have to strip down to my cage, prepare the table for her to eat, and then cook. I bring her a white russia and she tells me how she will let me out of my cage tonight. Once the food is cooked she sits and eats while I stand beside her and serve here what she needs. Once done, she leaves to the bedroom while I am allowed to eat for 5 minutes. I go to the bedroom where she is waiting, I serve her orally and then she handcuffs my hands behind me. She takes off the cage and play's with me. I get so close to cumming, she would stop and kiss and talk with me then start again. Finally she reaches over and I feel the ice cold rag against my balls and cock. I jump and she laughs, I shrink and she locks the cage back on. Kisses me and unlocks the handcuffs. I busy myself with giving her a massage before trying to go to sleep.

Reality:

She dress up for me in a sexy outfit, we go out for dinner, we come home and I orally bring her to a orgasm, we kiss, she flirts with the idea of letting me out, then roll's over and say's night honey it was great. The next morning she usually lets me out in the shower and I take care of business in there.

You figured out day 5 is the breaking point. LOL

After 3 days I start really getting the itch to get at myself, by day 5 I am getting really worked up. I love how you have figured this out and decided to join me for a shower!!!! That was hot, water running over us, you poking at me, your body by me.. Growl!!!

Then letting me bring you to a orgasm before going to bed. I was hotter than you could ever believe. Even now I am "busting at the seams'

You are such a evil wife but in such a good way. What was it that you were wanting? Anything? lol

What this blog is for.

Last post still has me thinking. This blog is for my wife and I to communicate about her being my Keyholder and me being her chaste without worry that a family member or friend find out about it. Why should I care. Because others might judge me or my wife or our kids. There is a point where you have to protect things, you can be open but have to protect some things in your life.

Just like your checking account, you can't just give that out or someone would steal all your money. Why? because that is what they do. So why hide things behind fake names? Because there are people out there that get joy out of trying to destroy what others have because they don't understand, disagree with it, or wish they could have it.

Best example I can come up with... A gay man is a boy scout leader, do you feel he could come out to the parents and boy scouts? No...They can't handle gays. So his joy of teaching and watching boys grow to men and understanding of morels and honor would be crushed...

So everyone keeps something behind closed doors, doesn't mean it is wrong, or nor normal. If you go to someone's house and they have all the doors open to the house, even their bedroom, usually they are the most uptight or boring. LOL. Judging others and shouldn't.....

Normal... What is Normal..

This is to a comment in my blog about if this is the only thing out of the normal in our life.....

What is normal?

Lets look at this in a different light.........

Is it normal for both a husband and wife to have a job? Husband stay home? Wife stay home? Have kids? Not have kids? Have two checking accounts? Have one checking account? Home school, Private school, public school?

Is there a real baseline?

Another light.......

To some, oral is out of the question, different positions are not even in the picture. Some can only have intercourse in their own bed and with the lights off. Others are different.....

Thats the point I am trying to make....... There is no "normal or vanilla" society has tried to decide what is "normal or vanilla" if you choose to follow your just a lamb in a flock. The only time it becomes a issue is when someone doesn't agree with you. They have the problem or "you" have the problem worrying what others will think.

We don't go to church, is that normal? To those that don't go yes, to those that do go, No. Do I care what others think... No. If I cared what others think I would be a Republican.... Which I am not.

We are all different, thats all, once people decide they can be different or want to be different, usually there are a lot of pressure taken off them. Just like a man or woman coming out of the closet. It is ok to not match what society wants you to be. If we all did, we would all be white sheep, huddled together waiting for someone to tell us what to do next.......

I will never be that..... Sorry got on my box but hope this will enlighten some of those that read this blog to let go, open their selfs to changes.


(polictical jab---- AND VOTE for the right PERSON not man that might do the best job).
Best for last.... If we were all vanilla normal people, there would never be a woman or anyone other than a white male as president... "Because.... thats just not... NORMAL"

So if you want to wear pink as a guy. Drive a hybrid other than a SUV. Be a chaste. Who has a right to judge?

Being normal to me, is doing what I want, being free, being open, once I don't do that, then I am not normal.................

Mind blowing weekend.

I just want to say that was the best sex we have had in a long time. Being held up for so long really had me worked up. I did eat you up! Not wanking really has me wishing I come up with this sooner. Now it was nothing different than the normal sex we have but I was so worked up I couldn't get enough of you. I had a lot of troubles once it was my turn!. You liked it way too much. This morning when I put the cage back on, I had to touch the key around your neck as I kissed you before I left.

funny how a piece of plastic can change things. How do you feel today? what do you think so far?

YOur in the grove I'm going crazy.

I didn't think you would get so comfortable with this. Plus last night at the gig I didn't think I would have problems getting you out of my mind. Being locked up for close to two weeks now is a wild roller coaster. I Get excited feel the cage, think of you, can't do anything about it. Your little comments and touches drive me crazy in a good way. I want to eat you up! I was sure when you let me out to get cleaned up good I would stay out. Sorry it took 45minutes to get back in. lol. I swear that when it is all about you I will pop the cage from the pressure. I love it, hate it, Love you, and you drive me crazy more than ever, in a good way.

your rules.

Yes you can come up with any rules or wants that you have.

I have no problem doing the dishes every night after you cook. The kids get into helping and maybe they will do them more too.

I like that I am still the one to bring up sex even if I don't get to have it most of the times, which is frustrating but hot. long as you are happy each night. And I like that we are One when having sex, no toy's needed. lol

Now having me clean the bathrooms is just WRONG in a way, you know how I hate cleaning the bathroom. BUT, when I was cleaning it last night, the cage seemed to make it all so better, knowing you were getting some enjoyment out of not cleaning.

Getting into this chore thing.

you have the ball.

Now that I am wearing the cb3000 for a week, I will move or try to adjust myself and find the cage. My thoughts go to you. Last night was frustrating and mind blowing at the same time. I was sure after 7 days that I would get out. You had me believing it too. I am glad your orgasm was great. When you told me I would have to wait, I thought the cage would pop from the pressure. It was way erotic. It took me a good hour to go to sleep as we spooned. You reaching over and grabbing the cage was like..wow..

It was fun, frustrating, and wild. I am thinking of you like never before. :)

And yes, you can come up with chores for me at home if you want. Just like last night when you told me you would LIKE me to clean the kitchen after dinner. I got it, the kids didn't. Was fun for me because you were sort of Dom like, and my sub side jumped at the idea. I hate dishes but your little saying, my cage feel good? wow.

I would do dishes everynight for you.

to give you the idea

With work, the band, the kids, and everything else, it gets where I can just wank and be done and go to bed and thats easier that trying to get everything together to have a night with ya. So we end up having sex once a month at best or usually every 3 months. When we first got married we didn't have all this other stuff but we made time a lot more for each other. I think this will cause me to find more time.

Working at the plant, I get stressed, the band stresses me, I take a lot on and can't let things go. I am a dominate type person you know, but I have a submissive side but that is only for you. I want you to control something, me, my orgasms.